Marriage

what is the meaning of MARRIAGE?

my colleague said that if you are not planing to have a baby, there is no point to marry
cause you can always cohabit even you are not officially married together

but for me, marry is not as so.
Marriage is bringing both relationship to another stage
when you sign the paper and said I DO
you are both bonded together
you are responsible as one
having your own life while live as two
you cannot walk for your own but walk for two

this relationship are blessed by everyone
recognized by everyone
officially you are belong to this person solely
a commitment to your partner

this is what it meant to me...


PS: Congratulation to my friends and colleague who are going to get married.
wish you have a blessed and happiness life ^^

ShangHai

a modern city, will lot of high building

yet dirty street, terrible human culture.

the street look nice, when you take a closer look, you will notice the street are dirty as KL street
there are people in suit and branded dress walking along the street
meanwhile you will saw people in dirty cloth, with or without shoes wandering around the street or train station.
some people work comfortable in the office, eat luxury food
yet there are people who work under danger and not even sure will there be a meal for the day

one child one family system had make their people with terrible character
the one that I met in the flight, she is forbidding the man in front her for laying his seat down because she feel that there is not enough space for her. They are used to the world that belong to them only...selfish for them is a natural thing...how sad is this...

a city crowded with people, crowded with culture, historical and modernization

a nice city to motivate one
and to beware and learn too

be aware of what you really want in your life
rather than blindly follow what is available in life

First Business Trip

This is my first ever business trip
to a place where I first step on - Shang Hai

Business trip is different from vacation trip
tension about the document to bring
tension about the attire to wear - professional
tension about thing that will happen
need to be caution toward everything
what happened, what information gained
yet, it is a nice trip, I learned lot from this trip

need to improve my PR skill
learn to be observant and selective
make fast and cover up full range decision
work hard and play hard

the most important thing...buy souvenir for colleague and your family...
yiks...screw one of it....need to amend for the next time....